Kaitlyn Bristowe is opening up about her love life and the way her previous impacts her romantic future.
“Due to my very own internal demons and trauma,” the Bachelorette alum, 40, informed E! News in an interview printed on Friday, August 15, referring to her makes an attempt at courting following her breakup from ex-fiancé Jason Tartick.
“I'm so hyper-independent that, once I begin courting, I'm like, ‘Alright, do long-distance perpetually and we will do our personal factor after which come collectively on the weekends or no matter,'” she added. “My therapist at all times tells me it's my coping mechanism. So, I really feel just like the problem itself is simply on me.”
Bristowe was beforehand engaged to Tartick, who appeared on The Bachelorette season 14 in 2018. The previous couple have been collectively for 4 years earlier than they known as off their engagement in August 2023.
Years later, Bristowe accused her ex of stealing her “dream child identify,” Teddy, and utilizing the moniker for his new canine.
“It's not that I'm not over him. I'm very a lot over him. I ended the connection. I didn't wish to be in that. It felt icky to me. It felt like the whole lot was for Instagram and numbers. I didn't wish to be in it. However to get a canine, identify that canine my dream child identify that I've had in my child names for 10 years,” she claimed. “I stated, the day I met him, ‘I wish to identify my child Teddy.'”

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She continued, “I do know I appear very indignant, nevertheless it's extra like, I don't like feeling disrespected. I simply have so many gross emotions from that as a result of for thus lengthy I used to be made to really feel loopy, and now I'm like, ‘Oh, I'm not loopy.' I simply noticed what different persons are seeing now. It's simply not aligned. What I need out of life just isn't what he needs, and two folks shouldn't be collectively like that. I'm not totally indignant. I'm simply actually grossed out and upset.”
Regardless of the breakup, identify drama and her “demons,” Bristowe confirmed earlier this yr that she is, in reality, dipping her toes again within the courting pool.
“I've been defending my peace probably the most that I ever have in my life,” she informed Individuals in April, including that she's “positively courting and completely satisfied.”
“And that's opened up some actually stunning doorways for stunning people to enter, and I'm actually completely satisfied the place I'm at,” she continued on the time. “I've at all times been a little bit too comfy talking out about my entire life, so I'm attempting to reel it in, however I'm additionally attempting to re-approach how I talk about issues as a result of up to now, I've realized actually powerful classes and I've been egocentric.”
She added, “So now, I attempt to communicate my fact whereas additionally reflecting and holding myself accountable for issues as properly, as a result of I do assume that's additionally a part of vulnerability.”
