Cynthia Erivo is opening up about being estranged from her father.
“I don't know what my life can be like if he was nonetheless round, and I can't say whether or not it might be higher or worse,” Erivo, 38, stated throughout her Harper's Bazaar interview printed on Tuesday, October 28. “Higher to not discover out. I've by no means daydreamed about that, as a result of it's not going to occur. And the life that I've, I'm so pleased in it.”
Erivo's interview shared within the November 2025 difficulty comes forward of her memoir, Merely Extra: A Guide for Anybody Who Has Been Advised They're Too A lot, set to be launched on Tuesday, November 18.
She mentioned her household dynamics within the guide, like being raised by her mother, Edith, in London. The Depraved star's father left her and her sister when she was 16 and “disowned” them, in accordance with the Harper's Bazaar interview.
Erivo has beforehand mentioned their strained relationship in a 2021 interview, sharing that the final time they noticed one another was at a cousin's wedding ceremony greater than a decade in the past.
“That is me admitting that there are issues that he's missed and I'm unhappy that he's missed them,” she informed Glossary journal on the time, discussing the tune “You're Not Right here,” which was written about their strained relationship.
“There are issues that he's going to overlook and I'm unhappy that he's going to overlook them,” she added. “There is part of me that needs I might have my dad in my life. However there's additionally part of me that's truly very comfy as a result of I've written this, figuring out that he's not going to be part of my life in any respect.”
Erivo stated on the time that she has no difficulty being “susceptible” and sharing the story about her household publicly.
“I don't know if I might have written something that wasn't sincere,” Erivo admitted. “I would like folks to know that it's OK to speak about these issues. I would like them to search out solace and luxury in my music. The objective has solely ever been to be truthful.”
The identical is to be stated for her upcoming memoir.
“I've felt so supported by way of all the fantastic and new issues I've been capable of share, and I assumed to myself, possibly I will help another person transfer by way of a number of the issues that they've happening of their lives,” Erivo wrote on Instagram in June, when saying her memoir. “So this guide is to assist anybody who needs to change into much more of the particular person they're meant to change into.”
The title, she defined to Harper's Bazaar, got here from the speech Erivo gave whereas accepting the GLAAD Media Award in Might.
“Of their quiet solitude, that's nonetheless a measure of riot and nonetheless deserves a bit of mild,” she informed the journal. “What I wrote about was [that] these of us who're within the mild, who're strolling round with our lanterns shining vibrant, ought to simply change the course of the lanterns and shine it again on individuals who don't know the place their path is but.”
 
 

 
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
 